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When someone who is married begins date outside the marriage unbeknownst to their spouse, it can create a lot of problems. While you are not the one who is married, you may be getting yourself in deeper than you had ever planned. If you are already in too deep you need to realize some things about dating someone who is married.
The worst thing you can do is assume that they are going to leave their spouse for you. They are cheating on their spouse because they don’t really want to get out of the relationship, if they did they would have gotten divorced, too. Don’t assume that the person is ever going to leave their spouse.
You will always come second, even if they tell you otherwise. The reason for this is that their spouse doesn’t know they are seeing you. Therefore, they will have to fit you into what appears to be a normal schedule for tonight to their spouse. This may mean that you spend a lot of time waiting and a lot of nights by yourself.
You’ll never be able to have a completely out in the open relationship. You may have to stay in certain areas of town, order dinner in, and not enjoy social engagements together. This can be tough once you are out of the initial phase of the relationship.
You may have to see your lover out with their spouse. This can be very difficult because you not only have to pretend that you don’t know your spouse, but that them being with their mate doesn’t bother you in the slightest.
You’re likely not their only bed partner. Most people who are married have sex with their spouse every once in awhile, at the very least, so you have to come to terms with the fact that you are not in a monogamous relationship.
You may never be loved by the married person. Chances are you are just filling an emotional void in their life and while they may tell you that they love you and even feel infatuated, chances are a real love will never develop. You’ll likely have to choose to continue to be the “other” person or part ways; you will probably never meet their friends or family.
They may never want for seeking your friends and family. If the relationship does evolve and they leave their spouse for you, you may always be viewed by friends and family as the home wrecker.
As you can see, there are some serious things about dating someone who is married that you should think about. Many people are able to make it work, but many more actually end up hurt and disappointed as a result. Make sure that you proceed with caution when dating someone who is married.
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This entry was posted on Tuesday, December 13th, 2011 at 6:39 am and is filed under couples sex, married looking for an affair.
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